Hotel Recommendations:
Here are just a few options for places to stay. We would also recommend looking around at different resorts, AirBnB and VRBO for the best rates.
Paradise Bay Resort is a good option for all families, rather than just military. We recommend this place because it is in Kaneohe, and close to our reception!
For those with US Military ID's, the cabanas on MCBH in Kaneohe are a good option! We checked their website and have seen openings for the weekend of the wedding. Be sure to book these soon if interested as they can book up quickly!
US Military resort in Waikiki with good rates and reviews
Transportation:
A rental car is highly recommended as public transportation around Oahu can be slow. There are lots of options from the services at the airport.